From a grammatical point of view, the languages are genuinely close. Both have masculine and feminine genders, definite and indefinite articles, adjective agreement, and well-developed systems of verb tenses.
The verbs ser and estar are also used in similar ways. Ser usually describes a permanent characteristic, origin, or profession. For example, the Spanish sentence Ella es médica and the Portuguese Ela é médica both mean “She is a doctor.” Estar is used for temporary states or locations: Estoy cansado and Estou cansado both mean “I am tired.”
Nevertheless, the systems are not identical. Portuguese has a personal infinitive, which can change its form depending on who performs the action. This structure may feel unusual to English-speaking learners, and there is no direct equivalent in Spanish.
The systems of address also differ. Spanish most commonly uses tú, usted, and the regional form vos. In Portugal and Brazil, the choice is more complicated. Você is widely used and generally neutral in Brazil, while in Portugal it may be perceived differently depending on the situation. The forms o senhor and a senhora are also used for polite or formal address.
The position of unstressed object pronouns is another important difference. In Spanish, the rules are relatively stable: Me dijo means “He told me,” while Quiero verlo means “I want to see him.” In Portuguese, the pronoun may appear before or after the verb. The correct position depends on the sentence structure, speaking style, and regional variety.